Umm, this is a big question... Sorry(:

Okay, I know this seems really saaad but I'm going to go for it, all the girls in my year seem to be out driving with older guys and have boyfriends. I've been driving with one guy and that was because my best friend knew him. I've only had one boyfriend my WHOLE life but that lasted 2 weeks and I was 13 at the time, so it wasn't serious. I don't maybe it's because I'm not pretty. The guys that do seem interested in me, don't last because I'm not willing to sleep with them. I know everyone reaches milestones at different times etc etc, but I can't help but feel depressed. I don't have many friends so when I left school and become a full time babysitter the little girl asked me if I had a boyfriend then her parents asked what I do at weekends - which is nothing. Also, my best friend (my only friend) has practically ditched me for more popular girls at school since I left. I've been feeling down about ALL of this for months now! Sorry(:.

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
Girl your pretty! and yeah i know the feeling. But heres how my friend posted the question to me: would you rather have tons of losers to date , that will break your heart and cause hurt over and over again or a once in a life time prince? the res nothing wrong with not having a bf!

I didnt make friends easy so i didnt have many, and my best friend also dumped me to be in the popular crowed! but heres the funny thing. i didn't let not being popular and not family a bunch of cool friends run me down but i just learned to be kind, a lil more out going and supportive to ppl that i did even know and soon i had alot of friends!

Didn't need a man or to do parties or stuff to be cool. And now im more popular the my exe bestfriend! (not to be mean) but it pays big time to be nice to ppl and help them. 20 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi

well my first real boyfriend was at 17. then i realized i was putting in more effort then he was.

then i didn't have one again till i was about to graduate school i was about 19

it's really not that big of deal to have a bf. most guys aren't worth your time so it's ok to keep your options open until you find a guy looking for a girl like you

nice guys are out there if you look for them. they may not always be the most popular or the hottest but they are there and they are fabulous lol

i would maybe try a new hairstyle to boost your esteem

i love getting some gold foils in the top of my head (i don't get them all over cause it's cheeper to just get about 5 foils *each one has about 4-5 strips of color in them* on the top)

also i like layers so i would try that too you could go to a long bob if you like and get a shaggy layer look but if you like the lenght you have i'd just get it with some long layers and a lil texturized

new hair can make a world of differance to your attutide 20 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

27 answers Luwlu_tinyDancer_x
heyy

let me tell you my story
when i was young i seen so many bad things that i was going insane and people were thinking that i was crazy
i didn't shower every day, didn't want to go to school because i was scared,always sad and then my dad died
it was the day i got my senses back
in a crazy way i started to feel the need to take care of my body go make new friends and leave home more often.
it very hard and still is but i wen to school thinkingh psoitive and in my heart i was saying no one will bring me down.i improved my grades,started to observe the way the other girls acted and started to like the things they do
now a year after i say i m happy
i have some popular friends but i have a group witch i fit in,you can start by helping some girl or joining some school club
i don't have many guy friends and all those who have guy friends are these ugly sluts who are willing to take anything that the guys offers them but be yourself
you will find a guy who respects you for your ideas and anyway the guys see the sluts like garbage so they are the ones who should have some shame..
you are pretty and you have those blue eyes(love em!!!)
keep in mind a positive attitude is the key to happiness
(i m not an expert and i think you will hate my comment but i m trying to help) 20 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

65 answers lalalalala
look ur not ugly,definitely not, uve just got some points to improve, just ur hair mainly, id outgrow the bang and maybe cut it in layers to give it more volume. that will make u look gorgeous. and its fine if u wont have sex with them. its great actualy,cuz if they realy do love u theyll stay for u. how come ur out of school and ur friend is still in school? did u just change schools?
and dont worry, everything in life has a low and high point. things WILL look up trust me =] 20 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Reply answer

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