Heyy , im new to BG kindof.

I recently lost all of my friends because i didn't want a reputation anymore of being a drugie & they stoped talking to me completly. Now its been like 3 months & i havn't made any friends yet , because im homeschooled. It takes alot of effort to even smile now,i havn't been happy for a very long time i don't know whats wrong with me or why im acting like this . What should i do???

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Trusted answerer CTL888
Yea, the reason you are not happy because you just went through a huge change in your life. Friends are a big part of anyone. and for you to stand up and walk away from something you know if not good for you will only make you stronger. I have walked away from certain people. ( I just knew it was time too.) It is sad to see how they are ... wasting away. but you are doing what is best for you. eventually you will look back andknow you have made the right choice for you. So good for you! You want more to life ... you will find more friends.. trust me, you will find people that have the same interest and goals. that will help you. Glad you are here.... =) 29 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

18 answers EmmaEmergency
I understand. Afew of my closest friends are Drug users, Drinkers and Smokers. And sometimes when im labeld along with them its rather annoying. But im prepard to stick my them no matter what. Maybe it was a rush desicion to ditch them? If they were making you happy.. then they were obviously good friends.
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273 answers OmFg_MeGaN
i had to make new friends after i kinda ditched my 'friends' because one of them told a huge secret about me that i told her not to tell anyone and she told everyone so i just ditched her and it took me half a year to make a new best friend but this time i acually like them and can trust them so its worth the wait but since your home schooled go and hang out in public places like the movie theater or comuntity center or something its easy to make friends there and welcom to BG:] 29 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

41 answers Ginger_E
being on here is a good start for making new friends. the people on here are quite nice and helpful. hope things get better 29 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer gLamorus_miranda
Awwwh hunni!!! If they were your true friends then they would have stuck by you 100%!!! You are soo much better than that. Always keep your head up and smile girl! You are sooo gorgous and don't let anyone tell you different!!! 29 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
oh and welcome to BG youll find good support here there are some good girls here with good advice-you can ask us anything

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
good for you for being able to do that-i dont thnk i can do that that takes a lot of inner strength. when youre friends desert you becuase they pretty much like drugs more than you you know they arent your friends, but it can be way harder than a break up. making new frineds is tough but once you do it will be worth it. i dont have hardly any friends since i came home from college and ill tell you its not easy. but there are way more potential non druggie friends than druggie ones and they have a way better future than your old ones do. 28 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
i will tell you in school i had 2 really close friends but i had about 7 really good online friends. i'm still buds with 3 of those today (and that was 8yrs ago)

so don't get down i used to love to shop with my mom and hang out at the mall, don't befraid to say something to a lonley person looking at things near you in stores. you may find a new friend in them as well (i help and talk to people like that all the time) but i do enjoy comming home at night and being with my family.

also once you get a job it'll be easier to meet people again just incase

and don't forget we'll be on here too and we can talk to you : P 28 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer Auri
yeah i totally agree. If they were your friends, they'd be there to support your decisions and have your back no matter what. And friends especially want the best for you so if they want you to do drugs, then what kind of friends are those?

Im happy you stopped, and it takes a lot of courage and strength to just stop. If they dont want to support you as friends and maybe consider stopping themselves...then you dont need them. Im sure you'll make plenty of friends in time. Just keep your head high and have goals for your education so you can go to college, make friends then you'll be a ton happier in the end! especially when your making a good living, have a good family and all those people that called themselves your friends once are doing the same thing they are now and are broke. Drugs and cigarettes make you age and can even cause problems, so you made a good choice in caring for your health and body. Personally, im very proud of you...and you dont need them to tell you otherwise.

Btw, welcome to bg =} Im auri ^_^
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79 answers MansssKulll
I agree with the comment below

Im not homeschooled so i dont know what its like...
I did go through a rough patch with one of my friends a while ago, I realise she wasn't a friend, some one who used me instead so i left them. I felt like i couldn't smile because i had no reason. Then one day some one said something as i walked past which made me smile randomly. And now i cant stop smilling. I laugh and smile and giggle and everything. If these "Friends" dont accept you for who you are and what you do then they are not worth your time.
And you may not know it but you have lots of friends, you may have never hung out with them like your old gang but they like you
and of corse you have us girlies here

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
IF your friends dumped you because you wanted to be clean from drugs then they were never your true friends in the first place girl! Ive been a loner pretty much all my life, i was homeschooled too. And ive learned that if you want to make friends then you just be polite and out going! like say if you meet somebody and the next time you see them say hi, you dont have to talk just let them know that you remeber them. And be yourself! you'll make new friends in no time! And theres nothign wrong with you girl! its fine, your jsut goin through rough grounds right now. keep your head up and try to smile more and you'll be okay here soon! trust me

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