his may seem silly but...

about how old do u think you should be around to get married.and how many years about do u think you should wait before having a baby after your married/

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Trusted answerer CTL888
I have always wanted to get married around 30. Never before 27 at least. why? because I want to finish school and have a career... at least almost done with school. I also really wanted to know me .. so then i could find the right guy that suits me. I do have a boyfriend now and we ahve been together for almost 2 years and we get along very well.

As for children....I was thinking maybe around 34.. I want to be able to travel first a little before I bring in a child to the world. But if it just happens then it does. 17 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
i think you need to be out of highschool

you need to have a job and be able to support yourself

you can't expect to get married and just be taken care of and if you have a job and are able to support yourself then you don't rely only on the person your with it's an equal partnership

and it sometimes takes two jobs to afford a child. i think if your married you have a baby when ever you want it's easier if you know you can afford child care. EXPENSIVE if you don't have family around to help : P

and i do believe in long engaugemens atleast 2years of dating before you think about popping the question and it's best if you're living with eachother for at least a year of that. so you can see how you really get along and how you each deal with the daily struggles of life and money 16 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Replies

15addie15

living with your boyfriend????????
17 October 2009

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
I want to be about 23 (I want to get all my fun loving youngness if you will, over with and then be ready to start a new chapter of my life which is being a wife and mother) or older to marry my man and then wait two or three years before we have kids (cause i mean living with somebody and adjusting takes time,.

but the biggest reason for the wait is: we have to be able to support the kids financially and HE has to be ready to be a father. Those two are BIG must haves) i mean theres no big hurry to have kids cause i mean you'll me a mother for the rest of your life! so make sure your ready. 16 Oct 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer jessd
um. well im sure the hell aint getting married soon. haha but i would like to get married, like mid to late twenties .. reason being so i have time to get my life settled in after college and i can live my life before all that..

um for kida. after i get married, i would say like 1 to 2 years .. so you can get to know that the man is good for you. and that you are ready to have kids. . everyone acts different when they have kids, so i would want to make sure that they can handle it and everything
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55 answers cucumber_fanatic
I'm not planning on getting married until my late twenties, early thirties, but i know of lots of people who got married straigh outta high school. It all depends on the person, and their life goals. For the baby thing, personally, i want to wait a couple years after i'm married to have a kid, to be sure i made the right choice in getting married. yup.

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15addie15

yah.i think i might want to get married in my early 20s.and your right about baby.i think u should take time to get to know your husband even more before u have babys.thaks
16 October 2009

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