ok i am becoming emo help!!!!!

ok i had this manger fight in school + i had a fight with my mom
so i got so mad i started to cut my self i dont know what hapend 2 me i could never do it but it just happend.
now all i just think about is cutting myself again even if i dont want 2
please helpo i am really scared of myself and i evenheard some people died
pleas help
thanx in advance
izzi

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Trusted answerer midsummer_dreams
ookie dookie.
i have the same problem. whenever im mad, i just lose my mind and run off to the toilet and cut. im not thinking when im doing that, its just the only thing on my mind. I cant control it when im doing it, no matter ho hard i try. and now iv got like, cuts all over my left arm upto my elbow.
its so hard to hide. the gone now, and the scars arnt too bad. but the scabs were, and i would always have to wear longsleeves . my mum found out about it.
but anywaays, try to talk to someone. my mum was so upset about it that i started feeling dead guilty. and now i wanted to do it again a few hours ago cos i was angry but i managed to stop myself, i just remembered how guilty i was before.
so id say talk to an adult, maybe it'd help. get rid of all the razors and stuff from your house. i had a bad time too, + i still going throo it. right now when im mad, nothing helps. music, books etc. nothing. if anything, it makes it worse.
so i guess all i do is lie down and cry as much as i can. let it all out, & eventually i get tired and fall asleep and when i wake up, most the anger has gone. im still not that strong and sometimes i do snap, but blah whateverrr.
thing is, you just need to breatheeeee and let it all out. hurt other things rather than yourselffff. or just cry. (;

hpe i hlped.
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crazy_izzi

thanx it really helps hearing it from someone who did it also thanx i will try my best
09 November 2009

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
and when you get mad you have to learn how to deal with those feelings and move on. you can't just get steaming mad everytime something makes you upset it's a great asset to learn how to figure out whats causing the anger and try to calm down and move past it

if someone is saying things about you just ignore it and rise above knowing your better than that

if it's a parent not letting you do something just try to remember you are under their roof and until you can move out you have to do what they say. the best option is to not drag it out go to your room and listen to music try to calm down

when your mad get on here and rant. rant as long and in ALL CAPS if it helps you get it all off your chest 08 Nov 2009 / 0

271 answers OmFg_MeGaN
yes..get rid of all your razors and when you are really mad you wont be able to do it...unless you have other sharp things but get rid of all those to and when u want to do it start doing something else right away like call your friend or do your homework or watch tv or something else that is distracting and tell one of your friends it will really help u stop because they wont want u to kill yourself and they will encurage u to stop 08 Nov 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer Auri
First off, get rid of the razors so even when you cant control it, you wont be able to.
Second off, when your mad...just think about whats making you feel that way and try to fix things. Even just drawing or writing your feelings down helps, so if you find that a way to express your feelings then do so =]

Think about all the good things in life and try to calm down, and take things slow. Address the problem in the situation, be calm about it and just try to figure out better ways to fix it. Cutting doesent solve anything and def. doesent benefit you in any way :/

Hopefully you find this useful,
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