When will i finally get to hang out with my boyfriend

I can never hang out with my boyfriend my parents won't let me go to the mall unless an adult is there with me and i can never go anywhere interesting with out a adult! I tell my parents that there are going to be 16 year olds (that my parents trust)going to be there and she still doesn't let me go when will i be able to hang out with my boyfriend without an adult

221 answers HAYLEY___HAMM
i have that same prob but i just group date at the movies or where ever and me and my bf sneek off 2gether lol....and every1 is right, ur mom just wants ya 2 be safe! but maybe u could go to his house or vise versa. and a parent could be home and just check in on u every once in a while. it could work

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Trusted answerer CTL888
Your mom just wants you to be safe. It is not that she does not trust you... she does not trust other people. there are a lot of bad people out there and she does not want something to happen to you. Maybe you can talk to her to see if you guys can come up with a compromise... like make a list of people that she does trust and would trust to watch you. then make a list of places where she feel comfortable for you to be and places where you she does not feel comfortable unless with adults. Hopefully this can help you and your mom 29 Aug 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer midsummer_dreams
She's just worried about you, you know :] Imagine if an older person picks a fight with you & they're with a gang, how are you going to defend youself? My parents once let me go out on my own & a gang chased me to my house lol. If it hadn't been for the fact im a very fast runner they'd had probably beat me up in the park.
Maybe you should go with 5 or 6 friends? Like make it a friends-day-out? Your mum probably will be comftable if she knows ur with more people. & you can invite your boyfriend along, or meet up with him in the mall.
The main thing is, you have to win your parents trust. You have to convince them that they can trust you to be safe & sensible. & you can always tell your bf to knock on for you or sumthing & just hang out with him on your street :] your parents would probably let you play out on ur own street :]
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