what the heck.. ?

ok so theres this girl in my class. she seems a little obsessed with me. i know for a fact she always wanted to be good mates with me.. but if i hang around with her, she expects us to follow her around. & i dont follow people around. im perfectly happy with my own grouup. But shes no irritating. Everything iI say she mimicks it, in a 'joke'. She always interferes with me. And then her bestmate (i was good mates with her before) now going on @ me that im 'blankin' her. wtf dude? just cos i dont talk to her much? i mean, if she talks to me, id talk back. she cant expect me to tail her arwnd trynna talk to her. She just started going on @ me on msn soon as i signed on. hnstly. And tday the first girl started giving me dirty looks randumly cos i was just having fun ( i had a scarf around my forhed, like one of em 80s gstas ;]) . and started talkin bout me. everytime im talkin to others she trys to talk to em. i know this swnds relle immature but it COULD get serious.

November 04, 2009

one of the girls is bestfriends with a year 11 & she could get her on me. she probs wont but sppose we start fighting ? iv alredy been bullied before in my oldd school. If its jelousy, i dont relle wanna get bullied in here too. Why cant people just let me be? She wants to be popular.. i aint stopping her. i dont even WANA be popular (if thats why shes jelous) ! what should i do ? we've only been in the sme school for 3 months, why do they expect me to be such gd buddies with em? I dont talk to anyone much apart from the griup i hang with. why do they keep thinkin im ignoring em? idiots.

191 answers AshleyXAngelbite
I can be quite a biotch when it comes to these things. At school i guess i make friends easily? but yeah and soon i had this whole roup following me and i was like whaattahecck!?! They always tried to do their hair like mine, dyed their hair the same color, dressed like me, talked like me EVERYTHING! I was so confused cuz they wanted to be like me. Until i was just like fer cereal? Fukk off! You could be a lot kidner about this but then they eventually all got off my back. Ugh those times were horrible. Tell her straight up and she will leave you alone. 06 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

95 answers ChelseaDianneDarling
I'm a loud person and I voice my opinions. So, I would get annoyed by this. Just be like, "Dude, your annoying me, be less clingy, kay? Fuck off" Or if your a nicer person, unlike me, you could put it kinder. ;P 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

41 answers Ginger_E
ya i agree with fulltimepinklady just tell her straight up what u think. 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
you dont have to be their best friends but you can still be nice. if they get to the point where they are being mean or socially weird and its irritating you so much you cant live normally anymore...although it sounds like it might have gotten to that point by now. you may have to straight up tell her (nicely but directly) that you dont understand what she wants from you but its becoming really suffocating. tell her you would like to hang out sometime but she has got to chill out because she is turning you off. sounds like she sees you as a popular person and wants you to like her and give her some attention 04 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
well it's good to try and get along with people and try to ignore things that aren't making your happy.

if you see that girl saying something that you don't really feel comfortable just try and make your way away from her. you can tell your older friend that you're not blanking her you just know she's better friends with that other girl that kinda gives you the creaps and you still like her but she does spend more time away from you as well

just try and tell her in a nice way that you like her and you love to talk to her but she doesn't have as much time to spend with you as she used to either.

just try to keep moving and having fun with your friends and as long as they all know that one girl is a bit of a pest they'll all know how your feeling when she comes around and starts copying you and stuff.

and actually that could keep you guys closer cause you'll have a common
enemy' lol 04 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Reply answer

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