ummm kinda awkward.....shaving?

so, ive never had sex and nobody has seen me completely naked before, so im really nervous if i decide to have sex with my boyfriend. but like i dont know if guys expect you to shave all your pubic hair or just the bikini line? and i shave my bikini line, but i get those little red bumps and its itchy sometimes and i wouldnt want that whole area to be itchy
what do i doo?

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Trusted answerer gLamorus_miranda
There is this product called "Coochie" that I use. It works wonders!!! All you do is apply it before you shave then after you shave rinse off and it's soo smooth. You can order it online or go into a nearby sex shop. 29 Jun 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
first i hope you know most of the girls on here think you need to be in a serious relationship before you get into a physical relationship.

by serious i mean dating for more than a few months and going steady basicly

and second if you go against the grain it will make it sore and itchy like that. always go from top to bottom if you have corse hair. and if you put on baby oil then shave it will be smoother

and every guy is different but most will like some 'grass on the playing field' because it shows you're mature.

there's the ever famous landing strip that i like lol 28 Jun 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer CTL888
It depends on the guy. One of my guy friends hates when his GF shaves it off b/c he says that he doesn't want to date a 12 year old girl.
I usually just wax everything off. I guess it is called a Brazilian. My boyfriend likes it. But I do it for me and not him....I just do not like hair and I also feel cleaner w/o hair... so it is a personal preference. I believe shaving it gets bacteria in your pores, thats what causes the red bumps. Bc you pull the razor against the grain of the hair folicle. To avoid the red bumps... use an astringent after you shave. TEND SKIN is great for bumps! 28 Jun 2009 / +1

42 answers ChloeBABEESS
Boys these days want it all 'naked'

.. I used to get thoe red bumps and it was because i was using a mans razor instead of a girls (SILLY ME )

.. So try get sensitive shaving cream

, Hope everything works out okay

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31 answers xxwolfiexx
I prefer to use conditioner when shaving down there, and it leaves your skin softer :] When your done apply baby oil or mild lotion and wear loose fitting pants for the next few hours, to help avoid irritation. And yeah alot of guys prefer it to be shaved

28 Jun 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer amaay
i agree with 'luckylady' :]
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15 answers luckylady
do what you are comfortable with. If "its" real crazy...do a little trim..shave the bikini line...use alot of shaving cream, warm water to reduse the bumps.
Sweetie the last thing hes gonna care about is the hair if hes gonna get some....just be safe!! 28 Jun 2009 / 0

2 answers Megz_xo
I use shaving cream it seems to help with the itching a little bit. But in my experience it doesn't help completely. Oh and sadly most guys do expect it do be shaven. 27 Jun 2009 / 0 Reply answer

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