Should I?

K so saturday were having this halloween school dance thing at our school and some other girls like jj other than me but theyre starting to lay off cause they no he likes me. I want him to go with me and i would ask him but im not sure if its weird for a girl to ask a guy. I also kinda want to ask him out but i have been informed that hes in the process of getting the guts to ask me. Plus i think that its kinda weird for a girl to ask a guy out, but the party thing dosnt really count as going out right? So should i ask him or not? or should i just ask him to dance with me

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
you may want to ask him to the dance bc its not like a date and if you know hes prob gonna ask someone anyway, save him the sweat, I wouldnt ask him out though, wait and see if asking him to the dance gives him teh guts to ask you out on a real date. then youll know he really like you....any guy you like and is going to possibly date you should have the guts to ask you out and not take the easy way out 21 Oct 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
girl if you want something done right you better do it yourself!

or how bout 'if you wait it may never happen'

or "you better get it done before someone beats you to the punch"

how bout 'never expect someone to do something you can't do yourself "

in otherwords it's perfectly fine to go for it first 21 Oct 2009 / +1

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
No its not weird

id jsut be like "hey you wanna go to the dance with me?'' worst he can say is no right? 21 Oct 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer CTL888
You can try to coax him along and just ask him if he is going to the dance first..... (just to put it out there)... then you can ask him if he has asked anyone yet. if he is still nervous then you can just flat out ask him. that would be sweet and he will be relieved. =) guys get really nervous... and nowadays there is nothing wrong with a girl coming out to ask a guy to a dance or on a date. 21 Oct 2009 / 0 Reply answer

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