No reason to be happy or live or anything

I fudged up! i went to the lake for Labor day and there was this guy i liked there. But i hav a boyfriend well i knew that guy for like a day and then i told shane i wanted to take a break and i wanted 2 but i couldnt stay with him knowing that i MIGHT have feelings for this other guy. And anyways i broke up with him well idk...and i totally regret it.. He was my everything and i just let it go. I have nothing to look foward to nothing to live for nothing to be happy about nothing to strive for nothing! idk wat to do. I love SHANE so effing much and i fucked up! he thinks i cheated on him but i so didnt. but yeah. just help..sorry for cussing but im just really mad.

*this pic is me and shane...my boyfriend...well ex at the moment..... wow....i feel like i broke my ownheart and just threw it out in traffic to be run over and everything...i let a part of myself go...

September 12, 2009

and i hav always had a problem with cutting..and like i promised him before that iwouldnt cut again...ive kept that promise so far but its SOOOO HARD i just wana hurt myself bkz i fucked up so bad. i love him like no other. he is my life. i could talk to him about anything!

September 12, 2009

we haad been dating for over 2 years

104 answers CookieMonstuh
GOOD GAWD WHAT IS THE USE OF CUTTING YOURSELF!?!?!?!??!?!?!??! Tell me that?!???? put on my wall, and tell me what good cutting will do?? i dont mean to sound insensitive but i hate it when ppl do that. its useless and stupid. you were obviously confused and didnt know what to do. it kinda seemed like you paniced and just kinda broke up without thinking. you need to talk to him and tell him how much youve screwd up. you need to chill out and calm down. get your head straight. just talk to him. thats the only solution. and if you even have an INKLING of cutting yourself (i thought of it too and this worked for me) HOW IN THE WORLD IS CUTTTING GOING TO HELP?? hoped this helpd! good luck...=) 20 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer myradiosayslala
you better call him and explain what you're explaining here sweety...
tell him you feel srry about it and that you love him so much !
try to win him back ! he will forgive you
and please dont cut yourself you promised him not to do it anymore...
x
13 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer crazy_izzi
call him
or even better send this
text what u wrote to him and sai how much you love him
sai him that he is your everything
and tell him how you feel without him
i hope u guys get together
i wish u the best and MUCH LUCK
OXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
PS write if everything goes well,
oxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
izzi 13 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer CTL888
All these girls gave really good advice. I think you just need to relax a bit and breath, then plan out how you will approach and talk to Shane. If he means that much to you then you will make an effort to talk to him. And if he means that much to you then you WILL keep your promise. 13 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

38 answers XxDemixX
i think you should call him and just speak to him or maybe even meet up with him im sure itl work out 13 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
yes, that was probably a mistake...but youre life isnt over. If there was no reason to live then half the people wouldnt be alive anymore and would miss out on some great things. You need to not cut first-because youll regret that later, second you need to tell shane youre sorry even if he doesnt take you back...think of how you would feel if he did that to you. So talk to him, let him know how you feel, and you know him better than most people so you should know how approach him 13 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
we all make mistakes the thing is, it is extreemly hard to keep up a long distance relationship because you just don't get the same connection with a person who is never around.

either way life won't be over. you will have TONS of guys.

if he really cares for you he'll take you back. if he was having worries and second thoughts about making a long distance thing work he won't take you back

but i'll let you know every guy i've ever dated when i was young i thought was the ONLY guy who would EVER love me. and everytime after i broke it off i found another one who tried just as hard.

life is never over infact you're young and it's still only begining. it may feel like life is over when a strong love is taken away but hearts heal. and either you can get back with the guy you feel for or you'll have to learn from these rough patches in your life and let it make you a stronger person instead of tearing you down 12 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

223 answers HAYLEY___HAMM
im sooo sory! i hate that happened1 i had that same prob once. itll work out tho1 it did for me and i know it will for u! just tell him u would never cheat on him and tha u made a big mistake and tell him u loooove him!!! haha but i know how u feel....i used to cut myself 2. i told my boyfriend that i wasnt gona do it again but wen he thought i cheated so he cheated on me....i couldnt help myself. he felt so bad and i love him sooo much! we made up and i know u and shane will 2! remember even tho u think cutting urself makes u feel whole, its just extra pain.

i hope i helped! im thinking and praying for u

god bless!!!! 12 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
Its okay girl we all make mistakes but hey look at it this way if this hadnt happened you wouldnt have known that you love shane so much! tell him that your so sorry and that you llove him. ask him to forgive you and give you a chance! if he loves you back too then he will! whatever happens you can never go back to cutting yourself!! you promised shane you wouldnt so even if you cant win him back right away, keep that promise as a sign of your love for him! perhaps that will make him see the light... 12 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

77 answers UneFille
I think its really important that you keep your promise to him and don't cut yourself. You really need to explain everything to him. If he won't listen to you on the phone or in person right him a letter or send him a message. Tell him how you feel about him and how horrible you feel for messing it up. Tell him again that you weren't cheating. I hope all goes well. 12 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Reply answer

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