Is it possible?

hey guys well idk is it possible to stop yourself from not liking someone to fast it kindov irritates me i end up liking someone soooo fast and if they dont like me i feel sada and stuff but i remind myself i was the one who rushed into things eeehhh this is akward lol theres this one guy who i like he lives in canada and he told me he likes me and i like him too (i was going to move to canada but now im moving to new zealand) so obviously i cant see him but i still really like him and now he has a gf but he still says he likes me and i get kinda sad every now and then because his gf comments on his photos saying i love you and he says it back i dont expect him to break up with her becuz even if he dd then we still cant be together ,im on the other side of the world idk ....so i just wanted to know is it possible to not stop yourself from liking someone so fast?

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Trusted answerer lavalley
and besides your gonna get a brand new start when you move, so leave him behind and find a new amazing guy, im sure you will!!!!!!!!

03 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0

294 answers

Trusted answerer lavalley
listen.....
try to move on a bit
i just lost a boyfriend last month of over a year and honestly the best advice i can give you is to focus your energy elsewhere. focus on school or friends or a hobby.
and let him have his other girl, someday you'll find somone perfect for you and he may not be it.
and if he is, well for now stay cool. give it some time but when you feel you dont "need" him, try to take the step at being friends with him its always better than nothing

hope i helped, kelso 03 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0

27 answers Cupcakegil
If he can't see the good thing thats standing right there, he isnt worth your time. Im going thru a similar problem, except people tease me about it. my guy doesn't have a girlfriend, but all the cooler girls tend to hang with him and sit with him. yeah, im the complete opposite of cool. be yourself, live life, and remember, their boys, so they are born stupid and ignorant. 02 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0

112 answers Hooch
You said it yourself, your on the otherside of the world, he has a girlfriends, so he's pretty much moved on, so why not you? I mean, you can do a lot better, take steps at a time, be the guys friend first. 01 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0

61 answers MissSamantha_
this happens to me alot;im a vurry softhearted romantic person who falls really quick for guys[most of the time the wrong sort of guys].

so idunoo the permanent solution,but if you want to get over this particular guy,throw yourself into hobbies.ive started playing guitar and piano and i have no time to think about guys lately,lol.

hope this helped![; 01 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0

246 answers gee_jade
well, here's my opinion: GET OVER HIM i mean, i agree with 3niR, you're liking the wrong guy.........just thinking about the fact that he has a gf but he says he still likes you is enough to be turned off. i feel like that too whenever i like guys and is still not over them...........just think about his flaws with the 'fact' as the main course..hehe.......and besides, there's no wound that can't be healed by time right? cheer up honey..........hope i helped!!! ^_^ 01 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer 3niR
I had a friend who was like you. Recently she is busy with her study and lots of other things. So she don't get time to think about guys

I don't know whether I should say this or not....but don't you feel like you are liking the wrong person? I mean, he has got a girlfriend but still he is saying that he likes you?

What if he is your boyfriend and he is telling another girl the same thing?

I might be wrong but I met this kind of people in my life and I saw what they actually want. Well it's up to you. All we can do is give you advice, but the changing part is depending on you. Our words can't change you if your willing is controlling you

01 Mar 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Reply answer

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