I need help..

Okay so there's this boy & he's pretty much always on my mind. I dated him before but broke up with him for this one reason. & well I haven't stopped thinking of him since. We dated over July- august. & So yea its been a long time, but I still can't get him off of my mind. I have a boyfriend and everything, but I still can't stop thinking about him. Idk what to do. Any help?

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
I went through that too when i broke up with my man (i dated him for 9 mons) and then i got a new man, but i found myself thinking of my exe every once and awhile but then id stop myself and remind me of what he did, how he hurt me and made me cry, then id look at my new man and see how much better he is and the old ach for my exe would vanish! so just think of what he did, how he hurt you and all that next time you think of him and that will help alot! 03 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / +1

1 answers beeshi
yuh have to realize that in a way you're hurting your boyfriend right now. this is definitely not healthy for you sweety. it the motives for the break up were strong snough then you need to move on. i know is easier to say it than to do it . time will pass and you will realize that theres always something better in store. good luck =) 02 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

41 answers 15addie15
was it a good reason to break up with him?if it was then you know u did the right think and just try to do things to keep him off your mind (shopping,hanging with friends,school,ect.).if it wasnt a good reason then go to him and try to sort things out. 01 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / +1 Replies

maggiie

well what he did was pretty bad. so i think it was a good reason. lol.
01 November 2009

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
why did you break up with him before? was it a good reason to end it or was it something that could/should have been worked out? and how did you feel right after you broke up with him? relief? happiness? regret? you will have mixed feelings everytime you break up with a guy and need to sort through them. sometimes youll realize you did the right thing and sometimes youll realize you didnt. give it time to think about and if you really think it shouldnt have happened, then go tell him and see what happens. FYI though: you thinking (or hoping) he changed isnt a good enough reason-they dont change. 01 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / -1

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
you'll always think about guys you've dated but you have to remember things don't change. the reason you broke up with him is still there even if you seem to forget or think it isn't as important when your back in that situation it'll be just like before

it's always best to try and move to your new guy it's not fair to him to be harbering feelings for an OLD flame. it's fine to still think he's hot but if you can't spend your free time thinking about your new guy maybe he's still not the guy you're suppost to be with

but as a girl who's been through alot i'm just saying burn bridges after you cross them, don't turn around and go back 01 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / -1 Reply answer

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