huge problem

omg i am in like the worst situation ever with my friends so i wasnt in skool for a week because i was sick and my best friend had to hang out with other people this is weird...but my beft friend has a girlfriend...and she always says the only reason they can stay together is because of me always making them laugh and breaking the tensiona dn i feel like it was my falt because i wasnt there and ya they broke up when i wasnt at skool so my other friend kendra dicides she is gay all of a sudden and goes up to my bestfriend madi and asks her out and she says yes now my other best friend cindi is kendras X bff and madis X gf and kendra says i keep talking shit about her and im not and she is mad at me and madi keeps txting me megan promis you will always be my bff and idk wut to do at skool tomarrow because she is gunna be with kendra and she is gunna try and talk to me and kendra will tell her not to and she will so kendra will probly break up with her and it will be my falt .............

November 05, 2009

and madi wont want me to talk to cindi and kendra is mad at me and im just in the middle....and then my other friend becca tells me my other friend amber told her something i didnt want anyone else to know and i thought it was my other friend sam who told everyone but it was her and i am mad at her now and then my other friend kayla is mad because madi hates her and she is mad at me for it and i seriously dont know wut to do help?

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
this is so typical of girls-and no not just your age all girls every age-it just so happens your age group acts it out like this. no matter what your age or your gender-or sexual orientation-it makes no difference the best thing to do when people are blaming you and you find yourself trapped in the middle, dont take sides, dont say anything bad about anyone that can be put back on you. take the high road and tell them they can try and blame you but in the end you will come out with no fault if you dont actually do anything wrong against anyone. 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
well you need to tell them both that you love them and you'll always be friends to them.

but OMG it's not your fault they're young and can't stick to a real relationship!

would you blame your dog if your boyfriend dumped you? it's the same basis you are not the glue to someone elses relationship. and you can't distroy something like that w/o even trying.

now if you were talking smack to each of them about eachother i would say yes you helped break them up but even then it would still have been their choice to break up not yours

as i said just tell them both straight off early in the morning even if you write them notes first.

"hey, i love you and i'll always be there for you but please don't make me choose between my best friends. i wouldn't do that to you and i would hope you'd respect my choices like i respect yours.

if you need me call me. i'll be here." 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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