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How to tell a guy in not interested?

Ok so there was a guy from my old school on facebook that opened up a chat thing and started chatting with me. I thought nothing of it cuz when I'm bored I chat with whoever is online. He then said that he had to get off the computer want to text? And I'm like yeah sure heres my number. Then we texted and I was getting bored so I said I had to eat dinner. Then around nine he texted goodnight. =) And this morning he texted morning! I can deffinately tell he"s kinda into me now but I don't like him. How can I nicely tell him to please leave me alone without sounding like a stuck up jerk?

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LittleCubanita
just dont text back and if he ever asks you y u dont text back tell him u got ur phone taken away. but if you dont want to like than i think u should tell him the truth. tell him ur not into him n u jus wanna be friends. 13 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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BrownBarbie
LOL!
"you're like a brother...or can i adopt you as a brother"
always works! xoxo
12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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BarbiPiXi
well first tell him maybe you have only so many text a month so you can't do too many.

but truthfully you can just bring up in mid conversation about your 'boyfriend' or lol 'girlfriend' haha

he may be sad but maybe he'll start talking to you less that's what i did to my ex
12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Rokkii
I'd say just don't answer him. Talking to him will lead him on and lying to him about a bf has so many possible downfalls. Telling him ur not interested leads to questions and he could end up getting himself hurt or just totally ignore what ur saying and try to convince u otherwise. My sis had this guy who was just obsessed with her and she kept saying no no no no no but he just kept nagging and it took a LONG time for him to go away, so I'd just ignore him 12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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CTL888
I have some guy friends that text me good night and good morning....and miss you and stuff. But they are my friends, I do not think they are into me. My guy friends also write notes to me and used to slip them into my locker! haha so lame right?

If you truely think he is into you and is now annoying with messages. I would just flat out ignore the messages. if you do not respond then he will get the picture. I think he was just being sweet bc he is from your old school.
12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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xBeautyBunny
I had a situation where this guy was OBSESSED with me although he knew I have a boyfriend. I tried to be nice and just send one word texts back but he didn't get it-so I just stopped talking to him and walked a different route so we wouldn't run into eachother. It's been 5 days and so far I've heard nothing (thank God) from him. Try doing that! 12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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BethanyJL
Tell him you have a boyfriend and start talking obnoxiously about him when he texts (Justin said the cutest thing to me today! omg i love him so much! He taking me to the movies and then to dinner hes a sweetheart!) all thats he should get lost real fast. 12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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fulltimepinklady
if you dont like him you gotta quit talking to him-even ignore him if you have to. hopefully he'll get the message without you having to straight up breaking it to him. just make yourself unavailable 12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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crazy_izzi
ok ur not complitley shure i had the same problem exept this guy was like freaking me out like u look nice got a boyfriend u know i am free 2night i am not a slut!!!!!!!!so i told him 2 leave me alone and that he is ashole
but this is a total diffrent thing i think he is just being nice maybe he was justr bored like u
and u cant be 100% shure u dont like him do u know anything about him??
just be nice but when he starts to be a little freaky and scares u tell him that u are not interested abut u guys can be still facebook friends
try 2 txt it nice so he dosnt gets hurt in anyway
12 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0
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