How can I just my boyfriend to kiss me or just hug me...?

So my boyfriend used to be my best friend since 3 months ago and he hasn't hugged or kissed me or any thing other than hi-fives. I think its cause when we were friends I didn't let him touch me at all because I don't like it when any of my friends touch me. How can I get him to touch like his girlfriend not his best friend?

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Trusted answerer crazy_izzi
take iy slow
maybe he is just nervous
or you make the first move
with the HUGG ]
dont make the kiss stage when he isn't ready yet you will know when he is
25 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
has he never kissed you yet? I would wait for him to make the first move but there are things you can do to make it happen possibly. flirt with him, make yourself irresitable to ignore or be seen as a best friend and more like a girlfriend. dress uo one day, flirt a lot, pretend like you are trying to get him-not like you already have him 23 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
duh touch him first : P 23 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer CTL888
Don't force him.. or do more than he is comfortable with. You will have to take baby steps. He probably feel ackward going from best friends to boyfriend. How long were you two bestfriends? Did he ask you out? or did you? bc... well let me know first. 23 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer Auri
Make the move =) He might still have the feeling you dont like to be touched so lead him on to letting him know its okay since your dating =)
Maybe at first hold his hand or hug him...and do it when he least expects it.
Like if you two are walking somewhere together grab his hand and see how he reacts :] im sure he'll be okay with it and might blush a bit.
Or hugging him when you have to go =) Just take things slow and dont move to fast.

Have fun with it and just relax!
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54 answers kirstiefrog
talk to him! he may only be doing this as he doesn't want you to be uncomfortable as he sees you tell other people not to touch him. start hugging him, etc, and he may get the message. If you don't tell him how you feel he may think you're fine with this and not change. Remember that he may not be comfortable with this though, respect his views too

hope this helps

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Trusted answerer midsummer_dreams
take it slow. maybe he's not fully ready yet cause it deffo is a change when your bestfriend bcoms your girlfriend. so just start of by little things like brushing your arm genst his, holding his hand casually, hugging him, giving him a cheek peck and stuff. (:
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Trusted answerer Hanlou
just start doing it gradually, like flirt with him then like tap him on the leg or arm like playfully to get him used to it. Or when you are like walking together like accidently on purpose hit your hand to his.
Sit really close to him so you are touching.

When you stand up put your hand on him to push your self up.
Like makes excuses to touch him.
Kiss your hand a put it on his lips playfully so he knows you want a kiss. 23 Sep 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Reply answer

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