Feeling horrible :/

Ok, well i waited for my boyfriend to get up this morning to chat with him...and i hadnt talked to him for 3 days so i missed him a ton! He goes to college, so hes always really busy with school work, etc. and ive already accepted that and i know its very important to him.

Well, I was talking to him this morning and I felt i should let him know that i consider him "the one" i guess maybe its to early to think that...but this is the longest relationship ive had, and i still feel the same way about him as when i first started dating him. Most people think its just lust, but i really do love him =) He said that he said he hoped i understanded that he didnt feel the same way because of previous relationships. My stomach turned upside down and i really felt like crying.

Do you think im exaggerating a bit, or is it ok to feel this way? He told me it didnt mean he didnt love me, just doesent feel like that yet.

Its been bothering me a lot :[

thanks girlys!
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132 answers ahroarah
how long have you two been dating?
remember that guys mature slower than girls do, so he just might not be feeling that 100% love yet.
don't get too heartbroken about him not thinking youre "the one". some people don't believe in "the one" (i know i don't). if he's had serious relationships in the past, he could still need some time to get past them and move on. being hurt affects future relationships. just enjoy being with him and don't push the topic of love. have fun while you're still young. you have years and years to fall in love with somebody, and for somebody to fall in love with you too. 26 Oct 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
first... HOW OLD ARE YOU you look like your in jr high

second if my 14yr old daughter was dating a 20yr old in collage i would be ready to KILL someone! omg

at 14 you will think your in love but seriously you don't even have a real life. you don't even know how life works yet. this MAN (he's not a boy if he's out on his own livinghis own life.) is dating a child. until you learn to be a woman and take care of yourself and make your own life you'll never really know how to be in a real relationship it's all just puppy love

i dated my ex hubby for 2 yrs before we got married and even at 23 i was still a bit young to take that step but he was 5yrs older and ready for that move and talked me into it.

you can love him yes, and you and miss him, and be sad to be away from him, but you won't be beyond puppy love until you both learn to take care of yourself.

how can you care for someone else if you don't even know how to take care of yourself. responsibilities go along with this too.

and sorry to say alot of guys like messing around with children and it's kinda sick. but usually their tastes change to older girls as they get out into the world. be careful and keep your eyes open i don't mean to be mean but these are all things i've learned and seen too many times.

alot of colleges experiances turn into lots of drinking and sex. and usually it doesn't include the old girlfriend left back at home 26 Oct 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer BethanyJL
Well if he doesnt 'feel' love for you yet, then telling him you think that he's the one is a bad idea! i know youve fallen in love with him quick but he hasnt with you so if you tell him something like that you'll just freak him out and he'll most likely beat it. So dont say anything, jsut go on as you are. if he ever loves you back (and he probably will hes jsut taking things slow) then you can tell him what you think but i wouldnt before. 26 Oct 2009 / 0 Replies

Auri

The thing is, he tells me he loves me all the time, and he said he really does love me...but hes got his heartbroken and he thought that they were "the one".And he said hes happy I think so, but he cant help it...that he might after awhile. Its not that i doubt his love for me, just that he doesen't see himself going anywhere with me or something.
26 October 2009

BethanyJL

Its okay girl just keep on waiting, give him time:) because i mean wont it be better to jsut wait vs rushing into things and causing trouble if you say it to soon?
26 October 2009

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