Boyfriends and Boy-Friends

im friends with this guy (Jack) and we are quite close, ive told him i like this guy named james and he seems fine with it.. he has told me he likes this girl called Jane.. but our other friends have told me that Jack likes me. and i like him to a bit.. but the shit thing is that i CANT like him.. its ruining everything.. i like james but my feelings are being overtaken by my feelings for Jack! Even if Jack does like me i dont want to ruin the friendship or ruin this thing i have with james. To make things worse, ive started to dislike jane for no reason... (but i DO know the reason.. its because Jack likes her) i dont want to hate her and i dont want to like him. Because my other friends have said he likes me is also making me like him more... idk wat to do.

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Trusted answerer Auri
Hun, follow your heart. If you have feelings for Jack, then go for him. If you feel your feelings are stronger for James, then go for him. Just think about what you want deep inside. and i dont think Jack would be mad at you for saying you wanted to date him if he liked back....and i think James would still be your friend anyways.

Just take a bit and think about it, when it all comes down to whom you know will be there for you...go with him =) And you never know, Jack could be your future husband =P

**Hehe sounds funny, because Jack is my boyfriends name so its kinda silly saying it like that**

But yeah, who do you feel the most for?
good luck hun,
x 04 Nov 2009 / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
really you have to take ruining the friendship out of the equation

you have to think you already have a basic relationship with jack it's just if you want to take it to the next level

and sometimes it can be a dominance thing. like all my guy friends i like it best when they don't have girls of their own and i'm they're main girly bud. it makes me feel more special. but you have to think what's going to make him happy too.

it may make me feel better when i'm the main girly friend but i'm not going to try and stop them from dating or not being nice to their girlfriends cause i want what makes them happy and i know i'd never date any of them.

so you have to first decide if you'd really want to try dating jack. and if the anwser is no then you have to keep in mind the best thing for him is to get out there and get some girl experiance that's not with you 04 Nov 2009 / 0

13 answers imyours0815
i totally had the same problem. But once u take the time and compare and really think about who u like it will make more sense. unless ur dating james then i think its ok to like both guys 04 Nov 2009 / 0

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