boy troubles. helpersss

SO, im dating one of my friends and im BFFs with his friends. one of them ive been txtin for awhile. My bf and our friends had a party for him and ive realized i hav a crush on him but hes like my bfs brother theyre that close. idk wut to do. help?

November 05, 2009

WOW that soudns confusin. okay so my bf matt and our friends had a party for ....lets call him B, we had a party for B and i realized i hav a crush on him. but hes lik my bfs brother.

November 05, 2009

lol well at his party he was flirtin with me the whole time and evryone got pissed so now i cant talk to him cuz we agreed to tak a break from talk to each other. now im really sad bout it but i really lik my bf. goshers this suckers.

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Trusted answerer fulltimepinklady
very normal..you will never stop liking other people or having crushes on others just because youre dating someone else even if you really like them. thats how affairs and cheating happens...but since youre not married you are welcome to break up with your bf and go for this other guy if hes worth it, but suggestion; dont do that, especially if youre happy with your bf. but it wont stop you from learning to stop you from liking the next best thing that comes along after that. you prob need to just stick with your bf and see if this other thing wears out. if you and youre bf and good together then it will show up soon enough and if you are then you def dont wanna mess it up for someone who you are less sure would work out beyond flirting fun. 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

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Trusted answerer BarbiPiXi
lol truthfully a young girl or boy's heart is very fickle

so expect it to happen. you'll probly fancy a few people at a time especally if they're attractive. and you do have to think if you like a guy he probly acts alot like his family and they probly look a lil alike too so it would make sence if you like one you'd probly like the other

but i would never break up with a guy you LIKE for another guy you LIKE

if you enjoy dating the one boy don't play around it's considered cheating emotionally. you can talk to the other guy but you shouldn't put yourself in any situations that could turn into a cheating thing. always keep talking friendly and don't spend any alone time with the brother.

if you know you like him more than the guy you're with then you can go for it but remember you're going to loose the first guy as a friend and probly a few of your other friends who think that's kind of skanky

don't get me wrong i've dated guys before that were friends with eachother we everyone knew none of us were ever serious. but you have to go into things like that with your eyes open. and don't expect everyone to know where you're comming from or why you made the decisions you did. some people you'll never be able to MAKE them realize y you did what you did. but that's the price we have to pay to grow and learn ourselves 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0

95 answers ChelseaDianneDarling
First, find out if B likes you. If he doesn't, then stay with your bf. Choose who you like more. Who treats you better. Its difficult, but, you'll figure it out. 05 Nov 2009 / Reply answer / 0 Reply answer

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